Finding Happiness in the Little Things
At one point or another, I think we’ve all been in a spot where it can feel difficult to find joy in day-to-day life. When you get stuck in that rut, it’s important to take a step back and consider the things in life that at least make your days suck less.
Because that’s what life really comes down to, right? Not every day and everything can be a knock-your-socks-off, mountaintop experience. Not only is it unrealistic and not sustainable, but it would also get exhausting.
Coming at it from a personal and mental health perspective, I found myself in a massive slump some years ago that I’ve ebbed and flowed out of at various times over the last eight or so years. Realizing that being stuck in a state of unhappiness was draining me in every way, I started to search in earnest for things that would, as I mentioned above, at least make my days suck less.
My Top Five
- A good book
- A quiet, peaceful morning for a low-stress wakeup
- My outdoor cats, a sweet little greeting crew
- A nice warm beverage
- A soft blanket to get just the right temperature
A Good Book
As a newly voracious reader, I can’t get enough of reading. It’s what I carve out time for each day, look forward to on the weekends, and track most consistently.
My favorite genre is nonfiction – particularly biographies and memoirs, true crime, history, and popular science. For some reason, fiction doesn’t tend to interest me as much, but I don’t mind. I love feeling like I’m learning something each time I pick up a book.
Among my favorite finishes this year are:
- The House of My Mother – Shari Franke
- Orange is the New Black – Piper Kerman
- This is Ear Hustle – Nigel Poor and Earlonne Woods
- Challenger – Adam Higginbotham
- True Crime Addict – James Renner
In the same vein as being a nonfiction book lover, I also get excited about a good documentary.
A Quiet, Peaceful Morning
We live in a – let’s say lively – neighborhood. It’s often loud and bustling with the not-so-sweet sounds of screaming children and barking dogs, and carries the sounds of the nearby businesses – read bus depot – right to our door.
So, when we get a few hours of blissful quiet in the mornings (and I’m awake early enough to soak in as many of those hours as possible), well, that’s just a treat.
Mornings like that almost make up for the noise that inevitably follows. Almost.
My Friendly Feral Fur Babies
My husband is a bit of a sucker for an animal in need (so am I, but I haven’t had as many opportunities to be touched by the cat distribution system).
Shortly after he moved into our current home, a cat in need came around, and he started taking care of her. A few months later, she came around with her sweet little orange baby, and they became the queens of the back porch.
Fast forward a few years to the summer I moved in, and two local cats had a small litter that ultimately left us with another two cats – a male and female.
We’ve taken care of them as much as they’ll let us – getting them all fixed and feeding them twice daily. Sadly, we’ve lost our original mama and baby to age, but the two younger cats still call our backyard home and tolerate our love.
When I come home, they make a sweet greeting crew, usually eager to get some pets on my way into the house.
While they aren’t “pets” in the true sense of the word, they bring joy to our days, which is a lovely feeling.
A Nice, Warm Beverage
As a lifelong coffee drinker, there’s something about waking up to the smell of freshly brewed coffee that never gets old.
Caffeinated or decaf, it doesn’t really matter to me; it’s the flavor and the smell that I’m really after.
As morning flows to afternoon and evening, I’ve gotten into the habit of brewing a nice cup of tea. Sometimes for a bit of extra caffeine, sometimes just for a nice herbal sip as I tuck into a good book.
A Soft Blanket
This may seem trivial or even silly, but as someone who is always a bit chilly but willing to bundle up, a good, soft, warm blanket is key. One in each room is almost a necessity.
I don’t go overboard with seasonal-themed blankets, but I’m not afraid to buy another if a cute one really catches my eye.
The Little Things
We can’t live at the top of the mountain all the time, so finding the little things in life that bring joy is essential.
My everyday happinesses may seem trivial or silly to you, but they brighten my days, which is what really matters.
What are some of your everyday happinesses? Drop a comment below – I’m always looking for new simple pleasures!




























































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